雅思口語part2《禮貌的人》話題思路解析!拿到這個題目學生們要如何作答呢?下面一起來看看雅思大神的分享：從我自己學生的反饋來看，《禮貌的人》會比《奇裝異服的人》難度稍微小一點，可依舊會出現(xiàn)讓人無話可說的狀態(tài)。

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　　Describe a polite person you know

　　You should say:

　　• Who he/she is

　　• How you know him/her

　　• What the person is like

　　• And explain why he/she is polite

　　縱觀這道題，它唯一的難點在于“Polite”這個單詞。禮貌看似具體，可一旦要用口語說出來你就會發(fā)現(xiàn)你根本看不到它的細節(jié)。為此，你想要回答好這道題目，你得先知道究竟什么是“politeness”。

　　一般，禮貌展現(xiàn)在一個人的“言行舉止”上。從一個人的說話方式來看，如果他不說臟話，善于傾聽，不大聲講話可以說明一個人是禮貌的;從一個人的行為模式來看，如果他注重餐桌禮儀、穿著禮儀說明他也是禮貌的。

　　如果你還想要有更加具體的說明，不如先來了解一下“3 Golden Rules of Politeness”。

　　Number 1: Don’t Impose 不要強迫

　　People have their own personal space. They don’t want this personal space invaded and they don’t want to be pressured into doing something they don’t really want to do.

　　They want to be treated as individuals and, if you impose 強迫別人做某事, if youinvade 侵犯 their personal space, and try to get them to do things they don’t want to do, they might reject you, they might not want to deal with you, and respond to you in a positive way. So, don’t order, don’t command.

　　Rule Number 2: Give Options 給予選擇

　　So, if you ask someone to do something, give them options. They have the option to refuse or accept. To do what you want or to say ‘I’m sorry, I’d rather not do that.

　　Again, if you have a suggestion, give people the option to accept or refuse it, or maybe give them the option to think of a suggestion of their own.It’s really important to give people options so they don’t feel trapped 陷入困境

　　Rule Number 3: Make the other person feel good 讓別人感覺舒適

　　This does not mean that you have to make people feel really happy. It means that they want to feel positive and in control of the situation, and know that you are respecting them, their opinions and their ideas, and their individuality as a person.